Thursday, December 10, 2009

LOOKING AT A MIRACLE

What a beautifully, awesome and wonderful day the Lord blessed me with yesterday. I just have to share my thoughts with you today or my heart will explode with the wonder of it all!!

Jill, Mark and little Nathan will have a new member of the family to join them in June. She had an appointment with her doctor yesterday and invited me to come along to view the sonogram with her. Since all my girls were born before something like this was ever heard of, I jumped at the chance!! When Chad was born (my first grandchild) I saw a "photo" of a sonogram and of all the other grand children since but, I had never seen a "live" test performed until yesterday.

My heart was in my throat as soon as the nurse started running the scanner over Jill's little tummy. There on the big screen I witnessed the miracle of that little baby that God was building for us. It was as if I was looking right into that little face, my heart melted!! Then, the baby started reaching out those little hands, and stretching out those little legs and then there was that tiny heart going "thump, thump, thump" right in front of my eyes. (Who could ever doubt the truth of a life even at this early stage of development)? I could have stayed there and watch those moments unfold all afternoon; it was hard to leave and turn that machine off again. I just wanted to reach out and hold this precious gift in my arms. But, alas, God's plan takes nine months and I must wait. I am so thankful to know that no matter what tomorrow may hold, I have already seen this little baby; the baby God has chosen to bless our family with and the baby that we all have already begun to love.

How amazing it was to witness such a beautiful picture of God at work. Thank you Jill for allowing me this moment and thank you, Lord, for numbering my days so that I might behold this moment. Life is precious and each life He creates is truly a masterpiece. I have seen first hand---"The Miracle of His Love".

I love you guys,
Judy

Colossians 1:16 For by him were all things created...

Friday, November 13, 2009

CANCER CHECK-UP

"Cancer" the word that started this blog; a word I don't mention very often in my blog anymore thanks to God's amazing grace and your many prayers!! So why mention it now? Yesterday was "cancer check-up day" for me and I thought I'd give you a quick update.

Since completing my chemo treatments two years ago, I find myself measuring my progress in "3-month increments". Every three months it's off to the doctor for blood tests and examinations. You see, the problem with cancer is that you can feel terrific and still have the disease. Then there are other times you may have symptoms, (like a persistent cough, or an unexplained long lasting pain), which in time proves to be "nothing at all". Eventually the symptoms go away, making you feel silly about ever mentioning the problem to anyone, especially your husband or your doctor!! And so, doctor visits are essential for figuring those things out and for watching this disease.

I am so thankful that I am able to give you a good report today--all tests were still normal, another milestone met!! As I walk away from the cancer center each time my heart is filled with gratitude and a deeper trust in my Creator. He knows everything about me and I trust Him.

My time for thanksgiving. I'm thanking God for another day, another opportunity or another challenge "to extend and enjoy a life worth living"!! Happy Thanks-living to all of you.

I love you guys,
Judy

Psalm 105:1 Give thanks to the Lord. Call on his name; make known among the nations what he has done.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

VETERANS DAY--"A TIME TO REMEMBER"

As my flag proudly waves in the wind this morning, my "heart" salutes the brave men and women who have proudly defended and protected this great land. I love America, a compassionate land founded as a Christian Nation. I love America for it's great diversity, for the opportunities to do and become whatever we choose, for the wonderful people who enrich my life and most of all for the freedom she offers. "The land of the free and the home of the brave---MY AMERICA"!!

Where would we be today without our brave Veterans? I wish my dad were still here so that today I could put my arms around his neck and tell him one more time just how much he means to me (still). He served in the Marine Corps for over 20 years and fought to make life better for me and for all of us. So, "Thanks Dad for your love, not only for me. but for your country as well."

In honor of all the Veterans who gave their lives and to all those in service who still fight today for our freedoms, I salute you with a grateful heart. If you are out today and see a Veteran go over and shake their hand and thank them for their service; even better buy their lunch if you happen to see them while on your lunch break. I'm mailing gift cards! What will you do today to honor your special veteran? "America the Beautiful"---let's all do our part to keep it that way.

I love you guys,
Judy

Romans 13:7-Render, therefore, to all their dues: tribute to whom tribute is due; custom to whom custom; fear to whom fear; honor to whom honor.

Thursday, October 1, 2009

"CHILDREN'S CHILDREN"

Seventeen years ago today my first-born grandchild entered this world. Not only was he the "first born", he was our first "boy baby". After raising four beautiful daughters I wondered, "What do you do with little boys?" Well, it didn't take long to realize that boys enter this world different in every way. Chad was a little red-haired bundle of energy who never stopped moving!! I was determined, with God's help, to be the best grandmother ever. I was going to keep up with him savoring every second knowing we would make lots of happy memories together and that is just what we have done.

As I look back down the road we have traveled, my mind is filled with precious pictures. When he was just a little guy he loved to spend the night with Nana and Pop. Every morning when he would get up he wanted to share a cup of "milk-coffee" and sit at the front door to watch for the school bus to pass by. He couldn't wait to be old enough to ride that bus. Of course, now he drives his truck to school every day !!

He liked the Veggie Tales stories and songs and whenever we were in the car we were usually singing along with our Veggie Tales tape. (We didn't have CD's yet!!). At home we played with Thomas Trains for hours and with every year he seemed to find a new "favorite" interest. There was the dinosaur stage and playing rec soccer and t-ball, then it was the NASA Space Program stage and later came Star Wars. During those early years of his life one of my favorite memories was the week we were able to travel to Florida and witness a shuttle launch together. Later that week we took he and his sister, Rebekah, on their very first trip to Disney World and what fun we had watching those little faces as they took it all in. We've been blessed to see countless ballgames, school programs, Christmas programs at his church and most importantly, witnessed his precious baptism at the young age of six.

Today Chad is a junior in high school. Where has the time gone?!! He is still very active; an excellent student who enjoys playing football, wrestling and as Lt. Colonel of the ROTC in his school he serves as Corp. Commander. He is equally involved in the youth group at his church in South Carolina and on December 26th he will leave for a mission trip to Africa. We will miss him as we gather to celebrate the Christmas holidays but we are so proud of him for answering God's call to GO. (Please pray for his group even now as they make the necessary preparations).








Since Chad was born, God has blessed our lives with four more precious grandchildren; each one special in their own way and each one loved beyond measure. (Rebekah 14, Ashlyn 7, Carter 4, and Nathan who is 3).

But, today is YOUR day Chad, and I write this blog as a testimony not only of my love for you but in honor and praise of the fine young, Christian young man you have become. Your Pop and I could not have ever imagined just how much God had blessed us that morning as we held you in our arms for the first time. Every day we lift you up in prayer, thanking God always for you. We encourage you to continue on your journey. Follow Christ in character and in conduct and you will find abundant blessings along the way. It will be exciting to watch just where God leads you next. And as I close, my love for you only grows deeper. No matter where you are........

I forever hold you close within my heart. "Happy Birthday Chad!"
Love,
Nana

Proverbs 17:6 Children's children are the crown of old men

Sunday, September 6, 2009

SEPTEMBER CHALLENGE

Greetings Friends,

Last month while I was relaxing for a few days at the beach I discovered a new and favorite author. Her name is Karen Kingsbury and the book I was reading was titled: One Tuesday Morning. It was a work of fiction based on that awful day we all remember....September 11th. As I started reading the book all those memories came flooding back and I could see that day as clearly as if I had just turned on my TV. The story followed the lives of several people who had lost loved ones at the Twin Towers and the more I read, the more tears began to fall onto each page. That was one day in our memory that we will never forget but.........have we??

I was reminded of September 11th once again just the other day when I turned on my computer and read an email that someone had sent to me. It was a challenge for everyone who read it to fly their American Flags on September 11th this year as a reminder, and in honor of, all the brave men, women and children who lost their lives that day. Do you remember watching the news or driving around the neighborhoods shortly after 9-11 and seeing our flag proudly waving everywhere you went? What about as we drove past our churches and seeing all the cars in the church parking lots? Why have we so quickly turned from wanting to stand up and testify "YES, we are a Christian Nation. Yes, we are a nation founded on the God we trust, a nation proud of it's very flag that has flown on our battlefields as far back as we can remember"? Oh, how precious are those freedoms! Oh, how many lives have been sacrificed so that we may enjoy those very freedoms!

Every year on Memorial Day and July 4th I fly my flag but, beginning this year, it will also fly on September 11th as well. As a matter of fact, the more I think about it, I am going to keep my flag up and let it proudly wave EVERY DAY OF THE YEAR! How about you? Wouldn't it be great to be driving around town on 9-11 this year and see the American Flag proudly waving everywhere we go?!!

I love you guys,
Judy

2 Timothy 1:7-For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

DIVINELY CREATED-SPECIAL IN EVERY WAY

Greetings friends,

The week of Elsie Conde Special Needs Camp has come and gone but what a blessing it was serving the Lord and meeting the 17 precious children and their families who participated in camp. The memories of this week will always hold a special place in my heart! I'm not sure if I can even begin to describe for you what I was able to experience but I will try.

Monday was our first day of camp and as we, the workers, prepared for the the activities of the day I don't think any of us truly imagined what would lie ahead as this was our very first "sports camp" for children with special needs . Some of our campers arrived in wheelchairs, some using walkers, some mentally challenged and in one case a child who could not speak but communicated through his eyes and hands. One thing we were all sure of as we watched these children arrived was that God's blessings were on our day and HE would meet us right where we were and meet our every need.

As we got acquainted and met our assigned child we had a very special guest who joined us that day, former Atlanta Braves player, Phil Nekro. The Field of Dreams in Flowery Branch was a dream of his and he helped start the funding so that this special place could be possible for use by special needs children and their families. During the opening ceremonies, Mr. Nekro threw out the first pitch of the game and also autographed a baseball for each child who was there. The campers were thrilled! The rest of our day was spent making friends, learning a new camp song, playing baseball and soccer, hearing our Bible story and simply laughing and loving in the Lord. We had some excited campers, happy parents and willing workers and by the end of the first day we were ALL excited about spending even more days together!

On day two as the campers arrived we watched them hurry to eagerly to hook-up with their counselors as they hugged and greeted each other as well. One mother came in that morning with tears in her eyes as she thanked everyone for giving her child (as well as herself) this special time. For many families caring for a special needs child is a never ending day. Someone always needs to be available helping to do those things that we so often take for granted.

By day three we were like one big happy family. The morning always began with prayer and singing. The middle of our day was spent playing soccer or baseball. You ask HOW?? Here are two examples:
One little girl, supported by her counselor, stepped up to the plate and with all her might hit the ball then grabbed hold of her little walker pushing herself to first base. When she slowly got about half-way there another little girl came out to the field, took hold of one side or her walker and cheered her on until she made it all the way to he base.

Then, there was the 14 year old boy in a wheelchair (I think he had cerebral palsy). On the first two days of camp his counselor would help him hold the bat so that he would be able to swing at the ball but ,on this day, he told his counselor, "I want to try this all by myself". He took hold of that bat and started to swing with all his might at the ball. It took him a few extra tries but he finally hit it! How proud he was!! As his counselor pushed his wheelchair around the bases, there wasn't a dry eye on the field.

At the end of each day we would gather together before saying our goodbyes to have our Bible story and prayer time. Oh what beautiful prayers we heard from the hearts of these precious ones. We witnessed love and acceptance in a way I had never seen before. There was no personal judgement, no fear. Never one time did they look at each other and see "obstacles", they just saw "friends".

On Friday night we held our closing ceremony and provided a meal for all who attended. I think we had around 200+, the bleachers were full!! All the children, accompanied by grandparents, parents, friends, and siblings had one final opportunity to play baseball as part of a team and to sing their camp songs one more time together. A very special young man, Clay Dyer, was the guest speaker. He is a professional angler who participates in fishing tournaments but what made him such an encouragement to all of us is the fact that he was born without legs and only part of one arm.

When the baseball game ended each camper was presented with a camp t-shirt, a Bible, a photo album with pictures from their week at camp and a bag of goodies to carry home. We gathered to sing our camp songs together one last time. Their favorite song was---"My God is so BIG, so STRONG and so MIGHTY, there's NOTHING MY GOD CAN NOT DO" . For five days I had the privilege to witness this same determination in these 17 precious lives. As I looked at their faces one last time, I looked into " the very heart of God" and saw just how valuable each child truly is. My heart will never be the same again.

"Special Needs Children"......Yes, they are truly SPECIAL INDEED!!!

Thanks be to God for this awesome opportunity. I am already looking forward to camp next year. Want to join me?

I love you guys,
Judy

Psalm 24:1---The earth is the Lord's, and the fullness thereof; the world, and they that dwell therein.

***For some photos & news stories you can go to:
www.gainesvilletimes.com/news/article/21366
www.gainesvilletimes.com/news/article/21544

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

BLISTERS ON MY FEET & MEMORIES IN MY HEART

Greetings all,

I have just returned from a four day trip to Disney World and, yes, I really do have blisters on my feet, a heart filled with wonderful memories and, I hope, enough pictures to fill a scrapbook!

November was my daughter, Melinda's, 40th birthday and she wanted to celebrate that milestone with her three sisters (Pam, Lara, Jill), her daughter (Rebekah), her niece (Ashlyn) and ME at the "happiest place on earth"---Disney World. Since we could not all be there until school was out for the summer we had to wait until last week to go. The wait was worth the fun!! Lara and Ashlyn flew in from Minnesota. We had not seen them since December so that was a real blessing to have them there as well. Ashlyn, who is seven, did not know that we were all going to be there too. She thought it was a trip for she and her mom. When she walked into the hotel lobby and saw us there she came running over laughing and crying all at the same time. Of course, none of us had a dry eye either!! That moment was priceless.






For four fabulous days we ate together, slept together, laughed together and walked a million miles together----every step a precious blessing. How wonderful it was for me to look around and see my beautiful girls (all 6 of them) sharing this special time with each other. Melinda, I hope that you had as much fun celebrating your birthday as we did. Thanks for requesting such a happy place to "party". There's no place like Disney to turn back the clock, forget about your troubles, and laugh like a kid again. God was so good to us! I thank Him for allowing us to have this time.

On our last morning as we gathered to say goodbye, each to return to their own homes, we had a circle of prayer together thanking God for our trip, for the great memories we had made, for safety as we were traveling home, and for our family. "Our Family Circle": a circle made safe through the blood of Jesus that can not be broken. (I'm looking forward to the day when we get to heaven and no longer have to say "goodbye")!






So girls, thanks for the memories---"Disney was wonderful".
Thanks to the Father---"Heaven is waiting". (Philippians 3:20--"For our citizenship is in heaven"..... )
God bless you, my precious girls!

I love you,
Mom

PS. Thanks to the husbands and daddies who also helped to make our trip possible. We couldn't have shared this time without your blessings as well. You're the best too!!